I hear stories like this from time to time, which pass my skepticism, because I believe it too random for anyone to have the time and energy to just fabricate and make up. I'm still unsure what it means though and as much as I believe some of these experiences really have happened people - I still have contradictory thoughts as to how it happens.
I understand though, what you say about these people having no clue, or no way of knowing that an older woman and a young man died at the premises. I guess it is a little too difficult to say it was a good guess or a coincidence.
Say - do you guys in the US know of a UK television magician called Derren Brown? He isn't really a magician. He doesn't really do tricks or illusions etc. He works more with human psychology - so because of that, he is one of the few of his kind I can tolerate to watch. Anyway, he did an episode about the whole ghost thing. He gathered a group of people to an old derelict college building or something (you may be able to find this show online). He told them a story about how a cult mass suicide took place at this location. He showed them photos of each of the members who killed themselves in the building they were gathered and explained to them in detail, the story. They'd all went down to the basement and drank a concoction of bleach in a ritual. Anyway, Derren had taken them here at night time and then split them all up, and placed each one alone in separate rooms where each cult member killed themselves. He then spoke to them via ear pieces and gave them a panic button. He did various things to raise tension and summons any spirit activity.
Most of the people involved in the experiment felt movement, something touching, pushing, breathing on them, changes in temperature, hearing voices, experiencing contact that corresponded with the pictures of the cult members. Most panic buttons were pressed and they freaked out and needed taken out of there.
Turns out, everyone in the photographs were alive and well, the story was entirely fictional, and the building was relatively new with no historic past. It didn't make a fool of these people, in my mind. It proved the power of the human mind.
Anyway, this is a very long winded way of getting to my story lol. I live in rural Ireland. Middle of no where. On a farm surrounded by acres of open land. My house has apparently been here for perhaps 200 years. Before my grandparents lived here, their relatives lived here. My father was born here and it was a bit of a shack back then. When he was about my age (30), he renovated it because of his marriage to my mother, and my birth. I was born in 1984. We moved in a few years later. My grandparents were still alive so they lived in a smaller apartment at one side of the larger renovated house. Their apartment was in part of the old building.
When I was little, my parents would sometimes go away for a night on vacation, and I would stay with my grandparents in their apartment, at the side of the house. I remember being convinced the room was haunted. I'd lay there in this old spare room, surrounded by pictures and painting of old relatives. I'd lie dead still in bed, the clothes sticking to me with sweat, fear and panic until the early hours of the morning. I'd be trembling with fear. I'd stare hard at curtains and convince my self they are moving. I used to go down the hall way and sit outside my grandparents bed room as they slept to be close to them because I was scared, but too afraid to wake them and tell them so. As I lay there, I'd listen down the hall towards the room I was staying in. I'd hear DEFINITE thuds, bumps and on one occasion a very loudly audible dragging sound. I'd be so insanely terrified to make my way back down into the room to try to go back to sleep.
To this day, I know I heard those noises. That is not made up.
My grandfather lived long, and only passed last December. I have spent since that time renovating his apartment, next door to my parents house. Myself and my girlfriend of 7 years now live here. I think we've lived here for about 6 months now. Because the house is completely mordernised, I forget its the same building at all. Its crazy for me to think that as I type this, I am sitting in that very room I was terrified of - but its now our living room, and its 1:30am, and my grandfather who recently passed away lived here, and there is no sign of paranormal activity in the slightest. The thought hasnt even crossed my mind.
Thats not to say I am completely debunking this as all psychological - don't get me wrong. I told you before in my previous posts that I am extremely reliant on scientifically backed up thinking - but that I think science could develop to such an extent in the future, that it may make paranormal theories completely and totally plausible and explainable and prove them to be true and real.
My point being, I don't know if it is psychologically 'made up'. Maybe if such supernatural activity exists, it enters a willing and accepting mind to manifest itself within. A lot of people who completely dismiss ghosts will never experience them. Yet, a lot of people who accept evil with open arms with claim to be possessed.
I'm not sure where its psychological, and where it may be something real that is being granted access.
As for stories like you said, where these people had literally no idea at all and knew it was an elderly woman and a young man, that really is fascinating. I wonder how they already felt about the idea of ghosts? Since they seemed to ask you the question in such a nonchalant manner, it would suggest they too had open minds and willingness to accept and believe in the reality of these things before they knew of the premises history. I wonder how much that has to play in it if anything?
Again, I'm just typing as I am thinking, so I am sorry for the rant or the amount of times I may have contradicted myself.
I loved reading this story though - its provided food for thought as always. Thanks for sharing!
Steve.
One of your comments really interested me, and that one was in reference to the "psychological".
When someone sees something, that is explained by scientific materialism, it is deemed, "psychological;" That is, the brain creates it, an illusion, and therefore that explains it. But one must also understand that we still do not really understand consciousness. The materialists, ASSUME that consciousness comes from matter, a product of matter, yet even believing in that assumption doesn't really give us a handle on what consciousness really is.
Have you read Sheldrake's the 10 dogmas of science? He is a scientist, who has a problem with assumptions that we make, that then become dogma. And science by definition should contain no assumptions, nor dogmas. Yet scientific materialism, from which all science used to be grounded on, is a very questionable foundation.
Sheldrake wants the scientific method to be applied to these 10 dogmas, but the High Priests of science want nothing to do with it. They don't want their assumptions called into question, just like any other religion.
Now all of what I said is relevant to the topic at hand. For someone to say something is just "psychological" while not knowing what consciousness is.....can you see the incoherence, or is this old brain just wore out? LOL. I am as old as dirt, not particularly bright, although I actually am college educated, or college miseducated might be a more apt term to describe me.
One thing that has always fascinated me was the placebo effect. It seems at least 30 percent of those tested notice improvement even when they were taking sugar pills. In some cases the placebo effect was greater than the real drug itself, as Sheldrake has said. As you said, consciousness is a very powerful thing, and perhaps even powerful enough to manifest these ghosts. But this may not be an illusion but as real as the chair I am sitting in.
I feel, I sense, today, that matter, the universe, life, is manifested from a consciousness, and some people call that consciousness God. And the each of us, being self conscious have a spark of that creative consciousness within us and without us. I don't feel consciousness is confined to matter, to the brain. The brain serves as a reducing valve of sorts, to handle billions of data, and what can be handled is limited by the brain itself. The brain is an instrument, of matter, that is able to tune in, like a radio, or tv set. It is also a pinpoint in which consciousness concentrates itself, like a drum that when beat, responds in its own manner of response. But like the drum, the consciousness expands outward from the pinpoint, the drum. Of course this is pure conjecture, but I seem to intuit some of it.
Oh, welcome aboard sir, as I forgot to do that. We hope you stick around for I love reading your thoughts.